Letty and Rae: After reading your threads, I played a favorite Joan Baez recording. A song written by Willie Nelson. I wonder if Kris wrote his song before Willie's. (I'll have to check that out)
I live one day at a time.
I dream one dream at a time.
Yesterday's dead and tomorrow is blind
And I live one day at a time.
Then, you're surprised to see me back at home.
You don't know how much I miss you when you're gone.
Don't ask how long I plan to stay,
It never crossed my mind
Cause I live one day at a time.
There's a swallow flying cross a cloudy sky
Searching for a patch of sun, so am I.
Don't ask how long I plan to follow him
Perhaps, I won't in time
Cause I live one day at a time.
I dream one dream at a time.
It echoes heartache, doesn't it ,and yet ,Willie is quoted as having said: I take it not only a day at a time, but a moment at a time. If you can be happy right now, then you'll always be happy because it's always in the NOW."
That's a tough road to follow, but it is worth a try, because isn't it true that if we're stuck in the past or lost in the future, we'll totally miss the excitement of the NOW? I have a feeling that that's what you're telling us Letty.