snood wrote:No offense, but I think that if you really believe that it makes no difference whether or not you're face to face, you might need to consider that a little more carefully.
I know for a fact that Walter is Walter, so I see no reason to believe Francis isn't Francis.
Like Walter, I choose not to be anonymous, but I cannot claim to be exactly the same in person. Depending on the circumstance, my level of testosterone could increase as easily as decrease, so that isn't it either. This is hardly limited to real life Vs. A2K either. I'm the giggling drunk at Brett Favre's Steak House (or A2K meets :wink:) and the thoughtful, reasoning employer at company meetings. Don't we all have a large array of hats for different occasions?
I have a much greater desire to get along with people in real life for both professional and personal reasons for another thing.
Another would be the simple truth that politics, religion, abortion, etc etc etc just don't make for good conversation in the settings I frequently find myself in real life (like my bar). Moreover, it would be a rare day when any bar could match the level of reasoning that is stunningly apparent on A2K once you learn who the read-past posters are (of both camps, though seldom the middle). The rules of engagement here are sufficient to really learn things from your fellow posters without necessarily taking every word with a grain of salt.
Why do I come here? To have sometimes fascinating conversations with fascinating people.
Persuasive? Yep. I've had my mind changed 180 degrees and accomplished the same. I've thanked and been thanked for the effort. This has occurred many times, both on A2K and in real life. I'd guess I am more persuasive in person, but that could be a reflection of the lack of hyper polarity so frequently seen on A2K.