Well, nimh, I can only speak for myself, but I do not like confrontations. They literally make me ill and I am not saying that in jest. I know it has to do with my upbringing, but knowing doesn't always help the situation.
Yitwail and I disagree on several issues, but I admire and respect the man and that lovely lady to whom he is married.
Yes, I do think this forum reflects many things in our day to day life.
It is strange to me, that the students who gave me the hardest time, usually came back later to say: Miss Letty, you were the best teacher I ever had. I smiled and said "Thank you." but I wanted to say other things.