@mismi,
Don't be like me though, have one too many and post. I know, I know, you won't.
Mostly I don't, either have too many or post then if I do. I admit doing it. I also sound wracked lots of other times, say if I've been up all night and day reading, dry eyes and their symptoms, mad mind.
But I don't care so much about normative now.
Chocolate milk and rum isn't the evil it might seem. What were those old drinks? Brandy alexanders?
Personally, I do best on a mix of red wine and Jumex fruit nectar (there are many) and some pellegrino or similar, with gaggles of ice. But I'm a sucker for rum and choc milk on ice blocks.
I knew in my adulthood a professor of much literary position (my husband's mentor, my friend) who had a well stocked bar, probably for the benefit and show to his english department, on varied occasions. Thus I got to try a lot of really good spirits. I can't afford them, but if I could, they'd be for sipping.