2nd fiddle's fine.
leader or follower?
both
assertive or hesitant
mostly assertive
initiator of conversation or waiting for the other(s) to do it
waiting for others to do it
paint for a hobby or play musical instrument?
Neither
Sing for your supper or take-away?
take-away
keep dogs inside or outside in kennel?
outside.
In your own backyard or further off.
own backyard
inground or above ground swimming pool?
had an above ground one in Hongkers, prefer in ground
own a lot of stuff or pared down?
pared down
frequent bric-a-brac shops or markets?
markets, especially in France and southern Europe, they are beautiful
antique or modern?
modern (but I do appreciates antiques very much in correct surroundings)
Landscapes or flower paintings on walls?
landscapes
genuine paintings or prints?
genuine paintings if affordable
Indian hand knotted rugs or wall to wall carpets?
Both, as it happens!
Laminate flooring or something classier?
something classier
electric or gas heater?
Both
Gas or oil central heating?
gas
double glassed windows or single pane?
secondary glazing, an uneasy compromise for old houses whose windows are sash, and don't fit properly
freshly squeezed juice or out of a carton?
freshly squeezed where possible
pineapple or orange juice?