Frank wrote:
Quote:Well actually, Twyvel, the reality is that saying "our reality" "your reality" "my reality" -- is simply an erroneous use of words.
I agree. A misuse of the word, or using one word with multiple meanings, as in your sentence above starting with,
the reality is that saying....
Quote:One might accurately say: "my concept of reality" "our concept of reality" or "your concept of reality" -- but reality is whatever it is with absolutely no dependency on anyone's concept of it -- UNLESS THAT IS THE REALITY.
In one view there is no one to have a concept of the reality (that is whatever it is) Frank. Any concept of reality is in the way of seeing the reality for what it is.(if reality is not a mere concept) And since my (or anyone's) concept of reality includes me the concept of 'me' is in the way, so to speak.
When you say, UNLESS THAT IS THE REALITY. You seem to be using another meaning of the word reality, .i.e. suggesting that one's concept of reality might be what reality is. If my concept(s) of reality is what reality is then reality is a concept, and dependent on being conceptualized and therefore inconsistent and ever changing.
I think there are "concepts of reality" and a "reality" that cannot be represented by concepts and therefore is something other then a concept. Hence your expression, "Reality is whatever it is.".....apart from any concepts or ideas of what it might be.
Quote: But it appears as though none of us knows whether that is so or not -- so one should really avoid using terms like "my reality" or "your reality."
I wouldn't agree that it appears that none of us knows. It appears to me that some do know. And since based on observation awareness cannot be observed I think that that is a kind of hole in what we take to be every day reality. ( it eliminates the observer). That is, ultimate reality or that which is real and right here right now cannot be known through a subject---object relation, even though it is always present, simply because it is the merging of the subject and object. We, you and I are the ultimate reality and we go looking for it 'out there' and 'in here', when all along the seeker is the sought. Sweet and bizarre.