@Lash,
Don't read if you've not seen episode 2 spoilers.
The other day I was listening to the radio and there was a discussion about the Disney film Moana, who is a very different type of heroine.
The conversation moved to Beauty and the Beast. Apparently this fa8ry tale was aimed at middle and upper class girls.
Like Beauty their father arranges their marriage often to an older man, and the tale was a piece of propagada.
Your husband may be a repulsive old man, a beast, but you will grow to love him.
I heard it was Martin's favourite fairy tale, and I know he wrote for the TV series of the same name.
It's a theme, Brienna and Jaime, Arya and the Hound and again tonight's episode.