Noddy24 wrote:My mother had a wonderful line, "I'm in my declining years and I decline to do suchandso--or whatever nasty little chore was being foisted upon her.
Being in your declining years is wonderful. I've paid my dues.
It seems the young look at getting old as something to dread, like your life will be over, when in reality, what many would consider their youth (age 18 to oh, 38, in their eyes) is only 20% to 25% of their life.
With age, comes wisdom, discretion and the knowledge you really wouldn't want to have to go through all that young and restless stuff again.
True Noddy, the older you get, the more you realize you have paid your dues, and can leave undesireable stuff to the young, who probably think you're too senile to do it anyway.
My first reaction is to say I feel quite young, until I listen to some younger people (not all mind you) and the way they talk like they know the mysteries of the universe, and don't relize how much they still need to learn.
I especially like the ones who will tell you about love when their longest relationship has lasted 2 semesters, or the ones who'll tell you what's wrong with your life, when they can't manage to get their laundry done.
Really.
I used to get annoyed, but at one point I realized there really isn't a way to learn about life, except by living it. Now, I'm amused.
That's when I realize I'm young, with the peace that comes with having been there, done that, don't really feel like doing it again.
Nothing New Under the Sun........Remember that the next time you think someone is too "old" to have gone through what you're experiencing.