I have LUST for woman!

Why do you want to overcome it?

I recommend many hours of porn and masturbation.

Re: I have LUST for woman!

Get married?
Hire a friend?
Get a job as a hod carrier (a brick layer's helper who makes the mortar and moves all the bricks around) and work very hard.

I have been taught by parents that lust is no good, it is immoral.

Oh, well, welcome to the rest of life.

Excuse me, I don't mean to toss that off if you are in a genuine crisis. We have people on a2k of various moral sensibilities and virtually all of us are happy to discuss issues, arguing back and forth, often vehemently.
We try, try and try, to observe the Terms of Service, which matter usually in terms of argument - we don't slam each other as people; we comment on ideas. (Or try to).

Check out the various forums.

is it ok to have trade with whore?

OK with whom?

Wow kicky, u are so helpful.... *rolls eyes*... Futurist... have you discussed it with your religious group? Maybe they have some suggestions that may be able to help you out? But... maybe it's not 'lust' in the true 'evil' meaning of the word that your experiencing... maybe it's just an interest... a light attraction to the opposite sex... I don't think it's anything to worry about.

Is lust OK? Wow, Futurist, as Eve said to Adam, that's a hard one..
For everything, it is written, there is a season and a time and a purpose under heaven, and the season for lust is young years, not old...

As for whoring, Malaysia has some of the most beautiful women in the world, and maybe half of one percent have this as their profession. Why not stick with the other 99.999%? Why be greedy?

If you choose to believe that lust is immoral, I see many hours of grief and inner conflict in your future. I choose to believe that lust is neither moral nor immoral.

So, you mean lust is a need that we should enjoy it without contrition?

That's what I think.

I agree with Brandon futurist. But if youve been brought up differently than you might want to talk to your social group about this and see what they say.

I believe it depends upon your religion.... I think.
Then again, I'm not positive, but maybe Christianity is the only religion that forbids this...
Lust is not even immoral in Christianity, I don't think...
Acting innappropriately on your lusts in immoral in almost any culture.
But, I have also heard that there could be very dangerous health issues in Malaysia as regarding hiring a professional prostitute.
I'd be kind of careful there.

While it is normal for a young person to feel the need to have sex, I have a problem with the whore question.

The vast majority of protitutes in Malaysia are sex slaves. The women (actually young girls) were kipnapped or sold into the work and had no other choice. For that reason I do not think you should contribute to the problem by funding it. Sex is not wrong, but forcing women into such a situation is.

Find a nice young woman who wants you for being you, and not one who will have sex because she will be beaten if she does not earn enough money to make her pimp happy.

We were created to enjoy sexual relations.

Is there enjoyment in sexual promiscuity? I would suggest there is pain and frustration as well. The world has enough venereal disease, abortion and parentless children.

My friend, Stanley was extremely promiscuous. He chased tail all over town until he died while chasing cars. Died like a dog, just as he lived. We buried him in the back yard.

BTW, if that is your picture, shame on you! Someone should tell your parents!

Someone once told me this. You can't stop a bird from crapping on your head but you can prevent him from building a nest there.

Whenever I try to stop doing something, such as thinking bad thoughts, I just keep reminding myself that I am not going to do that. I ask God to help keep those thoughts from me. Eventually, they do stop. We all have things that pop into our minds. Whether they stay there or not is up to us. I will be happy to say a prayer for you that God will help you deal with this.

aren't you a little young to be talking about this?

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