Flexibility is attainable and achieved at different levels without regard to gender. Breathe in the air and comfort of your surroundings. Take another deep breath.
Stop looking at others and comparing where you are in relationship to their progress. Find your weaker areas, focus there, with reliance and relief, both from your strengths and knowing that your best is your best. Yoga is internal as well as external. Examine your internal being.
Realize, other people might see you as more fiercely flexy than they.