So, we re both teenagers and as you all know, we tend to go too far sometimes. We didn t have sex, we're both virgins, but one night we decided to play around by trying sex positions naked. Not going in, not having sex, just mimic. I didn t cum around her vagina, but it s possible that some of my "precum" has touched her vagina. I wanna mention that her period is 4 days late. Should we worry?
1. It is pretty unlikely that you got your girlfriend pregnant with "precum".
2 You two are sexually active with each other
. Don't fool yourselves by saying it doesn't count. What you are doing has all of the emotions and risks as sex... it is sex. It is time for you to start acting like responsible adults. Hopefully you have good respectful communication. That is important.
3. It is time to talk about birth control. I agree with Izzy you should be wearing a condom when you play this way.
4. Condoms are very important. They protect against STDs, and they provide some protection against pregnancy.
5. However... condoms are not perfect at stopping pregnancy. You two have decided to act sexually. It is time to do it responsibly. Have your girlfriend talk to her parents, or to a doctor or adult counselor about effective birth control. There are several very effective options for birth control (since condoms aren't the most effective).
You and your girlfriend are sexually active. It is time to have this discussion.