It not only takes effort CJ,it takes patience as well.Very considerable patience if you lack charm to the extent I did.When I think of all the fun I have missed by not being as charming as I might have been I almost begin sobbing.I say almost because I'm not so bloody charming to be able to sob yet.I have been told that I should sob if I feel like it and not to hold it all up inside but I just can't manage to be that charming as things stand.
What do you think,CJ,about men sobbing their little hearts out?
Ooooops-I thought I was on the daft questions channel.
At least, no one will object here
Well spendius, that would mean you have terrible regrets
in life and sobbing would somewhat help your psyche to
cope, but won't bring back what you've missed out on.
To answer your question: No, men shouldn't sob their little
hearts out, they should - while they have the opportunity -
be considerate and charming and get in synch with their
feelings, for these regretable moments being kept to a minimum.
You can be charming, just practice every day in front of