You should go to your
doctor and get some real medical advice. You are overreacting.
It seems highly unlikely that any of your medical conditions have anything to do with your husband's genital warts.
It is true that genital warts are caused by HPV. However the strain of HPV that causes warts is called "low-risk" HPV because it is unlikely to cause any other medical problems. (I am not a doctor, but this is pretty common information from STD organizations.)
So, please. Go to your doctor and get real medical advice. I don't see any evidence that your husband did anything wrong.
Maybe if you talk to a doctor and get real information you can avoid messing up your marriage.