Can I choose all the above and also add a special order of:
Various strains of Buddhism, Hedonism, Mysticism and MTV, sprinkle with a little Hinduism, then blend it all with in a Greek Pagan Sex Religion base?
After imbibing heartily, retire to the other room and have a nice tall glass of Asceticsim.
Then come back for the next course!
Do we have to choose one to the exclusion of others?
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I'd like to think it can be like a smorgasbord and we can pick what we like from each...but that is probably problematic too.
One thing that took me too long to learn: It is important for us to be happy.
I mean, even if all you want to is be selfless and help others, you have to take care of yourself. Sometimes if you reward yourself and spoil yourself a little, this helps you get so excited or passionate about life that you end up helping others more than you would of if you had been a very dry serious masochistic ascetic focused solely on helping others.
To sum it up: I think we need a combination. Which combination is best? Hmmm....still studying that...I'll get back to you in a few lifetimes...