Re: are there pure relationships between male and female
ai wrote:Do you think there can be a pure relationship between a male and a female(in the same age level

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See, and I just don't know.
Its so nebulous and such a gray area.
I work with many women (I'm male).
And I am friends with most of them. But I do not consider doing anything else with them (intimate, etc).
Not that I am that great of a guy or anything, its just that I do not want to get into that at work. Not at all.
So I see these women a lot, work with them, we have various relationships at work, but we never get intimate, and I do not desire it, and I've got so I don't even fantasize about it anymore...there's plenty of women other places to go there with.
So based on the above info, would you say my relationship with these women I work with is pure?
I mean, I like a lot of them as people, some I feel neutral about, and some I don't care for much. But I would never consider dating any of them. For better or worse, I feel I have them in a different box in my life.
Would you say our relationship is pure? If you qualify the above as pure relationships, then I'd say yes its quite possible to have a pure relationship to the opposite sex.
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Now, if I started seeing these women after work, we had drinks alone after work, go to movies, dinners, hobbies on weekends, whatever, then it gets a lot more blurry. I think once you start going this direction, it gets a lot harder for the male-female to have a "pure" relationship (assuming I'm defining it the way you are). Its still possible, but I think this kind of friendship is rare; especially if it goes on for years and years. I'm not saying its impossible, and some will call me close minded for stating this. But from what I've saw in my life, this kind of relationship between male and female is rare. I'm sure it happens. But rarely.
Flame away!