do I make a decision based on my daughter's "feelings"?

To make a long story short my daughter resents my boyfriend I’ve dated on and off for several years. In essence, she tells me she just doesn’t trust him and she wouldn’t trust him whether it was for business or personal relationship. I believe she gets this feeling because he did commit a white-collar crime 13 years ago and she just can’t seem to get over it. The truth is I’ve known him for over 35 years and he’s very reliable and has a good family and has always been honest but he did get myself involved in something he should’ve been involved with with his brother.

In addition he can be very aggressive in terms of showing his feelings and apparently he did this last summer when she when we went all went away together. She felt he took took over the place in and took over me included. He can be controlling this way sometimes but that that’s because he gets overly excited and he’s very much in love with me and wants to be with me the rest of my life.

I know that to some extent she tries to control me but my son is telling me that she shared with him that my boyfriend is basically taking over my whole life and wants to be with me.

I love him and I know he loves me a great deal he’s a good man but I’m concerned about living with him because he isn’t fiscally sound in terms of having assets but he is responsible with the money he does earn from work and collecting social security. I really didn’t know what else to say to her or him other than to assure her that I’m a grown woman I can take care of myself I don’t need her to like him but just to tolerate be respectful when she sees him but. She tells me that she hates him so much she can’t be around him and that he “gives her the creeps“. My sisters like him and feel he’s very good to me even though he doesn’t have much in terms of assets for future retirement. Should I be heeding to my daughter’s strong dislike of him or should I ignore her?