Hi

Shewolf so happy to see you again. You should have heard the clamor when you disappeared. It sounded like a brood of chicks without a mother. You're important to us. I'm really sorry to hear about your grandmother and touble in the family. Talk about a double whammy. Hope you come out ok. I suspect there's going to be some bumps in the road for awhile. Just come back to us when you're ready.

I know it isnt necessary to apologize, but I feel I should. It wasnt but a few feet away my computer was and I could have turned it on, typed a few words and turned it off to return to my hermit-hood and I didnt do that. I promise, that if anything happens again like this ( god I hope it doesnt) that I will write a few words... just to be considerate.
I have to say, that it feels wonderful to know how many people were worried about me. I feel pretty alone lately, as my smal family has gotten smaller. I heard from her ( mil ) mouth that she thinks pretty small of me. . . not that her opinion really matters but it still bothers me. She has become very wicked and hard to even look in the eye. That can make anyone feel small and insiginificant.
Our move is going to be hasty and desperate.. wich bites the big one.. but I have come to the conclusion that this is what we get for waiting around SO long in a situation that we KNEW was getting worse and worse. >sigh<
I am on a computer that is slower then a 3 legged elephant.. so sorry for the slow responces..but im still here. :-)

you are strong, shewolf. and when you'll get through this, you'll be even stronger. you have our thoughts and positive vibrations. and i don't have the slightest doubt that if you put your mind and energy into it, you won't be in a new place very very soon.

it sounds like your mother in law is crying out for help, in a way. but if she's not seeing that she has a problem, you cannot help her. people in crises can say the most hurtful things, don't take it personally. perhaps once you move she'll be more pleasant to deal with... or not, but at least she won't be in your face...

Will! Will be in a new place very very soon!

Agreed about MIL. -sigh- Sorry you have to deal with all that, shewolf.

Here she is!
I am so sorry for your loss and you have all my sympathy,
take all the time you need. We're just glad nothing
happened to you.

I'll kick her in the knee for you if you want.

Shewolf--

Hold your dominion--on and off A2K. We're here for you.

shewolf
shewolf, Dys and Diane sent you letter for all of us who were concerned about your absence from A2K.

BBB

I have learned that motivation comes in all shapes and sizes and very often it isn't good things that motivate. It is what you do with that motivation that either makes your life better or drags you down even further. I have no doubt that someone as strong as yourself will have no problem turning this situation into something positive in no time at all.

Here is a good laugh...

Last night I called my mom and told her what was happening and that I was worried that we would have to move out ina few hours..
My mother of course, bless her heart, offered to come and " set her straight "
Then she piped up.. " Too bad there arent such things as battered In-Law shelters!"
And I said, " Yeah, they are called ER's, but I would definatly go to jail for that one"
My mother was silent.. then she laughed so hard she chocked.. " It wasnt for HER dumb-ass.. I ment for YOU to LIVE away from HER!! You know.. like battered womens shelters?!"

this is all a result of bad karma, feeding me tofu in such a sneaky manner!

{{{{SHEWOLF}}}}

I'm so sorry about your grandmother. I know it was rough when mine died and she was ripe for it.

<but I'm really really glad you dropped us a line!>

Oh Shewolf, what a big sigh of relief to have you back.

Bella Dea started the thread, a sort of Where in the World is Carmen San Diego for shewolf thread where we all could express our worries and hopes and ideas for tracking you down.

My big thanks to Bella Dea and also to Squinney for good ideas for finding you. Just remember, little missy, Dys and I know where you live. You might have found us camping on your doorstep, confusing your life even further.

{{{{{{{{{{ Oh sweet shewolf!! }}}}}}}}}}

Glad to see you back Shewolf. I hope that you can find some peace and comfort after the lost of your grandmother. Losing a loved one is never easy. I also hope that your other situation is resolved to your satisfaction.

Dys-
be glad you didnt fall asleep if you think THAT was sneaky....

And diane, you two are welcome to camp on my doorstep any day. I may even turn the light on for you two at night..

aiyiyi

I'm so glad you've surfaced, WolfieMom. So sorry to hear about your gran and the increased difficulties with your MIL.

Wishing we could be closer and help you pack up and get the he!! outta Dodge.

Yo shewolf,

You know you're the best, right? Because you are. I'm glad you're back. I've been waiting anxiously!

One,

smog

Hmmm. So just when did a witch have any trouble with those who think too big--just shrink 'em honey.

So glad that you are all right, my dear counterpart.

from Letty who was REAL(ly) concerned.

Shewolf, Shewolf, big hugs. I am relieved to see your wolfy face.

I am sad about your grandmother, and very frustrated for you about your mother in law situation and the need to deal with it at this point.