Re: Advice
Ray
I have learned never give any advices. We are all different, with our personalities, beliefs.
Imagine you ask me: "do you think I shall accept that job that was offered to me?". And imagine I say: "Yes, that is a good job".
But "a good job to whom"? To me, of course. But the job is for you, not for me.
So, after 2 months of hell you quit that job that had nothing to do with your personality, and you say to me: "you are an idiot! because of you I had the worst 2 months of my life. I should punch your nose for that!".
And you are right.
When someone asks me for an advice - except if it is a technical question, like the meaning of some legal concept - I answer: if it was me, I would do (this or that). But I am not you. You must make your own decision according to what you wish and like.
(I don't know but there are too much punching in my nose since yesterday philosophical punch of TheThinkFactory. Perhaps Ciracuz, if he is reading this, can explain that fixation in my nose).