No one seems to have an answer for what I wrote last night on another thread:
Lash wrote:This situation is unspeakably cruel. Some people are grandstanding. Some are manipulating this situation. And, some can't stand the fact that this woman is being killed.
And some... me at least... think the wrong person is making the decision for the wrong reason. The folks who wrote the common-law marriage laws obviously didn't anticipate this situation. It is beyond doubtful that when they wrote the laws they intended that someone in Michael's shoes would become a polygamist. The man has obviously moved on and Terri's inability to speak for herself is the only reason he's still considered her next of kin. This is a simple oversight by lawmakers.
While I personally would not wish to be dehydrated to death were I in Terri's position (having no God, I'd prefer to live as long as possible under any circumstances) if I wasn't a financial burden to any non voluntary person; I none the less would respect Terri's parents decision if they concurred with her EX-husband. Unlike CJ, I don't accept that a piece of paper trumps reality in determining who Michael's wife is today. To claim he is the legitimate "next of kin" is to deny that common law marriage exists and that the law makers clearly didn't meant to create a polygamy situation which is, of course, ridiculous.
If Brooke is right about who Michael is; you all know my position there so I'll just skip that for now.
My hat is off to the Democrats who are, as I type, voting their conscience. Almost half at this moment have voted to save Terri's life until this is sorted out. I am once again happily surprised and humbled by the congress exceeding my expectations. I should note that prior to seeing the vote result, I didn't realize this was such a Party Line issue. I now agree with whoever said earlier that the idea that it would be is disgusting.
I have no idea really if prolonging this woman's life is a curse or blessing; but I am certain that the decision to kill her should not have been Michael's.
Both houses appear to have sided with Terri's parents. Good.
Now this morning I see people saying that anyone who believes the dissenting doctor's opinions is delusional? I never would have guessed so many A2Kers were qualified to make such certain assessments. Even if misguided; what would justify such shameful scorn? If I had a daughter; I'd like to think I'd do everything in my power to protect her from being killed including but not limited to: Lobbying lawmakers, begging for her life on national television and I'd probably consider killing her would-be killer as a last resort. Regardless of what you think their motivations may have been; law makers have done what they could to help a family protect their daughter from the man who wants to kill her. That is the simple truth. Good on them.