Phoenix32890 wrote:Quote:DOES the "husband" still have the right to make the decision? Did the husband forfeit that right 8 years ago when he "started a new life" with another women and had 2 children by the "new wife"?
woiyo-Legally, Michael is still Terri's husband. He is legally merely living with the other woman.
I get very angry when people get all uptight about Michael having a life outside of Terri. For goodness sake, Terri was in a persistent vegetative state for five years, before he had the relationship with the other woman.
Was Michael expected to put his life on "hold" forever? Just think about what YOU would do, if you were in that position!!!
Phoenix, your steadfast refusal to admit the truth of this surprises me. I expect others to let
their personal thoughts on what should be Terri's fate interfere with their assessment of "next of kin", but
not you.
One need not find fault in Michael's natural decision to move on after 5 years of no meaningful marriage to acknowledge that he did indeed move on. The simple fact is; he did. If Terri were able to speak for herself; there isn't a single court in this land that would deny her a divorce based on that fact. No reasonable person could deny this, right?
One need not even consider Michael's motivation or Terri's condition,
at all, to admit that simple truth. Yes, Florida Law lacks a provision to appropriately re-evaluate the "next of kin" status in this situation.
Michael could be the kindest, most considerate, compassionate Ex-husband there has ever been
but there can be no doubt that he moved on and when he did he ceased to be her next of kin in anything but flawed law.
As always, the usual suspects will take political advantage and the usual suspects will see nothing beyond the political power struggle that encompasses every decision made by elected officials. That doesn't mean we should ignore the simple fact that Michael would not be considered her next of kin were she able to speak for herself. Ignoring that FACT makes no sense
and personal opinions about what Terri's fate should be shouldn't enter into that consideration.
If you get past that simple truth, then you have to consider that Florida's flawed Law governing next of kin status has allowed this woman to be condemned without representation loyal to her or her true next of kin. While that may very well be the most humane final chapter in
this story, it is nonetheless the wrong precedent to set. I lack the legal expertise to know if this flaw can even be legally reviewed/addressed by the Federal Courts under this extraordinary new legislation... but that is or at least should be, the true nature of this attempt at remedy.