squinney wrote:Easy for us womins to say, but he doesn't even know that he is the father. Why should he jump in and take responsibility so quickly without confirming paternity?
If he is the father, then sure. He needs to be a father. But we are talking about a baby tht isn't born yet, and a father that hasn't been proven to be the father.
If the tables were turned, I'm pretty sure we would see it differently, although I agree that "female problems" wasn't the best title for this thread.
I hear what you're saying, but he was talking about what would happen if the child was his and if it was, his only concern is about paying (or should I say, not paying?) child support.
Instead of being the least bit concerned that he may have created a human being, the only thing going through his mind is having to pay for the "problem"!
The child isn't even born yet and he's looking for possible discounts on child support payments with no regard for the child, which is what bothers me.
<----- This would be me if I were a girl, but I'm not. ^^'
