With out reading the thread, my answer to the original question " would god exist with out us" is NO.
I believe human kind created the image/idea/concept of God.
Examples -
God is a MAN? who said? Who said he had human form?
If a human created the idea that there was a god of course they would also add onthat god was a human. At least in appearance.
God male? Female? again.. traits a human would add to a god like figure. For people to believe in a god , the god has to be like them.
Very simple answer, not too many details I apologize. but im sick. gimme a break.