Quote:If I want to say s*hit, damn, a**hole, f*ck whatever, I should be able to without being labled as "ignorant" or "classless".
And I want to worship my Lord and Savior without being labeled a "Jesusfreak" or a "zealot".
Some things just ain't gonna happen.
Quote:I wouldn't, for example, use the word s*it, if I were a doctor at a convention. I'd use the proper term. If I was a doctor, telling a story out with friends, I could use the term s*it and get away with it.
I'm not saying you can't be informal. I'm saying that if you can't say anything nice, then don't say it at all. In much of the deep South, "damn" isn't considered a curse word at all-- but then again, it's usually used in the context of something like "Wrastle that damn 'gator" and not like "Damn you!"
The biggest thing is that society has changed words around and given them new meanings. "Hell," "ass," and "damn" are all in the Bible-- but in reference to the place, the animal of a donkey, and the verb "to condemn" respectively. Society, however, has given new, usually malicious meanings to these words, and so they are curse words
when used in a malicious context.
The biggest misconception about this is that "well I can call you a melonhead and that's okay, but if I call you a f***er, then it's not." That's not necessarily true. It's just that, if I call someone a melonhead, I'm usually doing it in jest, and not meaning it. But if I actually mean it, then my speech isn't being graceful, and I doubt it's acceptable to my God, like scripture instructs.