@dalehileman,
I sympathize with you, but don't care to get involved not knowing all the details and not wanting to spend time reviewing them all.
Sorry.
I can only imagine your discomfort. I know I would be very unhappy.
I cannot offer anything more than that at this point.
I don't even have any advice, but did review your thread asking for some.
Thank you for reaching out to me to engage; however, this time, I must pass.