@rosborne979,
I don't think I've at all implied that "it's not all right to challenge" anyone's assumptions. I've simply tried to highlight the need some folks have to
create empty contention with people who are clearly
not spoiling for a fight about their faith.
1st person: Why does God allow children to suffer?
2nd person: Well, I've always thought that there is a larger plan, that...
3rd Person (interrupting) Because there ain't no god!
the 3rd person has a choice when happening upon that discussion - he could see it as some of those religious types, talking shop - and go on about his business.
He could try to participate by remarking that he personally doesn't believe in god, and then discuss things in a way that didn't challenge people to defend possibly lifelong held beliefs to a stranger.
He could directly confront the foundational premise of the whole thread, thus turning the discussion into another back and forth between people who live their lives with faith and those who don't.
It's a free choice anyone on A2K certainly has the privilege to make, but it
is a choice. One of my motives in this thread was wondering if I was an atheist, would I choose similarly (or care at all) if I see a discussion taking place between people who don't share my (non)belief.