@saab,
saab wrote: I came here as the wife of a Gastarbeiter. Sweden was not in EU, so I was a Gastarbeiter wife.I had to have an allowance to live here.
Well, I think, you use the German word "Gastarbeiter" incorrectly when you are Swedish/Danish: it was used between 1960 and 1968 for persons from Spain, Greece, Turkey, Maroc, South Korea, Portugal, Tunesia and Yugoslavia who were hired for a limited period.
[Similarly, the Netherlands and Belgium had a parallel scheme called the
gastarbeider programme. Sweden, Denmark, Norway and Finland had similar programmes called
arbetskraftsinvandring]