Re: BBB
BumbleBeeBoogie wrote:Why do men murder their wives, girlfriends, etc? Is it revenge, sex, helplessness, disrespect for women, etc. etc.?
If Scott Peterson murdered his wife, I think he thought about it for a long time and the more he thought about it--hate began to consume him. I think he was totally self-absorbed and self-centered and resented the baby that she was carrying because he wasn't the center of Lacy's world anymore. I think she probably rejected him sexually in the early months of the pregnancy and continued to do so as she grew bigger. I think that Scott grew to HATE "Lacy's baby."
He actively sought out another woman to service his needs (as he prioritized his needs) and soon after Lacy disappeared--Scott subscribed to porn channels. I think Scott viewed Lacy's pregnancy as something that totally destroyed his sex life--he was taking a backseat to the baby--his resentment grew--Lacy (as a baby incubator and future mother) became something totally repugnant and hateful to him. He wanted a sexy woman to cater to his needs--cater to his ego. He didn't want to be a father because he figured that Lacy would always put "her child" ahead of him and he saw his entire life ruined--he resented Lacy and her baby for tying him down to a life he didn't want--he resented Lacy for getting pregnant and it ate away at him until his heart and mind were filled with murderous thoughts. (My theory, anyway.)
Did he strangle her to death? It takes a lot of hate to strangle someone to death.
I think Scott's motives were consuming selfishness, consuming jealousy, consuming hate, & a consuming need for revenge. I think he wanted to make sure that Lacy would not live long enough to enjoy having "her baby" and he wanted to kill her just before the holidays to deprive her of that joy too.
Why do current and former husbands/boyfriends/lovers kill their women? Because there is a fine line between love (lust) and hate (rage)--and almost anything can spark someone to cross that line and commit murder.