My boyfriend of almost 3 months
Our relationship was amazing until about 3 weeks ago.
you had a great (?) boyfriend for about 2 months and then things started to crap out
if he wasn't going to jail would you put up with his bullshit? I hope not.
let him go to jail and get his **** sorted out.
you take the time and figure out why you allowed yourself to be treated in this way
maybe in a year, both of you will be in a better place
maybe in a year, he'll be back with his ex (who probably thinks he's cheating on her with you)
maybe in a year, you'll be with someone else
talk to a professional about why you are even considering this relationship to be worth maintaining