@Leadfoot,
Did you call me a liar?
I have known that woman for 55 years. Within the first five, I was a bridesmaid at her wedding, in a catholic church, right about the time I was leaving religion. No, we didn't talk about it at the wedding time, it was all about bride's maid dresses. If I say we have never talked about it since, I am not kidding. Your impertinence is noted. Your presumption is annoying.
She is into christmas decor, but I don't know her own takes after the wedding years, then or now at this point. Not my business. She has a fair sized family and is into making the good old house home. She is also very smart in science. Even I, long time non religion person, had put up a tree or two because I had lost my parents and still had family ornaments, and later, a nice big Opuntia ficus indica plant with some ribbons... for the season. Have you heard of Saturnalia?
The Opuntia was hard to drag in the house, took the both of us, oww-ie.