Well zarreena, as you said, everyone is entitled to their opinon, including you.
That's regardless of the value I'm assigning what you say. See? It feels kind of weird when someone turns pearls of wisdom around on the speaker of them., doesn't it?
Empathy or no, life is not fair, and no one is in any position to tell me what I need. That's just something you think I should do. There're some things just jam packed with value for you to learn, if you choose.
If you don't choose, which I doubt you will....meh.