@benMak,
Dear benMark,
So, to start off w/ (though I'm sure someone has already told you off before):
I really love how you said "I'm all for man and woman equivalence...", but you earlier stated in the very beginning "Woman are nothing more than sex toys, inspiration, and a holder for man's children." How are you all for gender equality if women are nothing more than sex toys, inspiration, and a holder for 'man's' children. Do you have any idea how arrogant your remark comes across? Hypocrite.
Sadly, you forgot to mention how women embarrass themselves on the internet? I think you're just embarrassing yourself? Are you ashamed? I would be.
Also, feminism is not just women either. Feminism's definition is the equality between all genders. Everyone is fighting for the same thing.
And before you ask how is it for both genders when it's called feminism, or that you see a different definition I'll answer for you: There are two basic definitions for feminism. One says it's the fight for women's right to vote... etc. The other says it's the fight for gender equality; let me explain. The first definition I stated is an old definition. Feminism started off as woman fighting for their equal rights to vote and etc. Why would they include the gender that already had the right to vote? That would be silly. BUT, then it became something more. Women and men realized they had something in common. Men have just as much problems with gender equality as women, so the definition changed (evolved). Also, before you ask, "Why don't they change the name?" No one seems to have a problem with it if you're pro-feminism. Why change it? Why can't you respect where origins started out? It's like your last name. It has been past down through family member, through family member, yet you don't change it b.c. you don't like it. You leave it b.c. it is where your family began.
Don't get me wrong, before I continue, I respect your opinion. I was raised to respect everyone's opinion even if I don't agree, just as my sister and brothers are.
What is so brainwashing about Woman Studies? It is a study that celebrates woman's achievements to become more equal and important as men. They're not trying to convince anyone, or force you to believe in Feminism at all. Brainwashing would be me telling you that everything about feminism is right and good, and I won't leave you alone until you do! There are bad parts to feminists. There are people out there who are "feminists" that are man haters. Yes I said it, man haters. I'm not saying there aren't any of those out there. But, then they're not truly feminists are they? Those women out there give feminists a bad name, and don't truly know what we are all about.
I think you don't understand what feminist do. The fight for equality really isn't suppose to be violent or manhandling. Beyonce is a representation of feminists. She is only advertising her own belief, b.c. that's all you can do. She can believe in whatever the hell she wants, and say what she believes. People who follow her and agree with her were not brainwashed. People have their own freewill to do whatever it is they want. But, it isn't wrong to say what you believe -- a form and a way to fight for gender equality is to share your belief with others who are willing to listen, and in hopes that our words sink into society. We just want fairness. Women want to be paid the same wages as the male co-worker, men want people to listen that men are not the only ones who rape but that women do too... etc.
Words, actions, things are all so twisted and categorized to each gender based on how society thinks a woman or a man should be or do or live or believe. But really there shouldn't be any categorizes. A man wants to wear make up? Cool. Go for it. A woman wants to be a weight lifter? Go for it.
I chose to believe that we should all be treated the same. The only time I would change my mind on that is if you prove me otherwise, then I will give you the benefit of the doubt. I don't know everything, but I do believe in this. I'm sorry if it upsets you, but what the hell? I'll say whatever I want.
Before I go, Beyonce isn't a porn star with a bit of talent. Beyonce is a dancer w/ an amazing voice. If she wants to wiggle her butt, then she can. Not for your pleasure, but for her own. She feels beautiful doing it, and confident. You apparently have no idea what kind of things make a person feel better about themselves. She gets up and does her thing b.c. she enjoys doing it. She doesn't hop on dicks and what not, she is married w/ a child. Just saying. Also, if you actually look up her songs, some of her new ones are self identifying. Such as, "Pretty Hurts". How would you feel if someone pin pointed something they didn't like about you, and say all sorts of nasty things even though they don't know 2 shits about you? Do you know her in real life? Do you know what she's about? I would ask you to look up interviews or writings w/ beyonce or ask her questions or w/e before you start yapping your mouth. Treat others how you'd want to be treated.
Also, we are born to do what exactly? Be porn stars? You haven't met any women that could kick your ass? Or be smarter than you? Or do something that puts you below them? You obviously have an ugly ego. I know I'm not the hottest, strongest, smartest person in the world. Just b.c. I'm a woman though? Just b.c. you're a man? What makes you more special than a woman? What makes you think we can't do anything you do? Before you say reproduce with sperm, let me say that men donate their sperm so you actually don't need a man per-say to do it. Insemination is done a lot, but you can't carry a baby around for nine months w/o a woman can you? I mean unless you pay a surrogate. But my point is, we all can do things w/o each other.
In conclusion of your argument, it doesn't hold up w/o facts. Where are the poorly written studies? What makes your argument true? Please point out what you're talking about; otherwise, you argument is basically invalid.