In the eyes of society it's only
OK if it's misandry. Hating men is viewed as A OK in the world. Any
other kind of hate is viewed as being wrong.
I know you should never hate someone for doing wrong to you personally. But is it ok to hate someone who's done actual physical harm to a member of your family?
Some people are just shitty. I know it's hard to accept this, but sometimes even family members are just shitty. You didn't have any choice in being related to them. You have no obligation to like them.
Find positive people who treat you with respect and worth! They ARE