@cicerone imposter,
Okay I'll try once more.
It does not matter
if a "state of affairs" is actually negotiated...it has to be
potentially negotiable...the solution to a dilemma... for the word "reality" to be used. What you call a "fact" (from
facere to construct) could equally well be stated.... (following a negotiation even with oneself)...
"the reality is that cycling is both healthy but potentially a risk to health".
Thus the negotiation results in a construction/resolution/description of a state of affairs concerning cycling, in which the word "reality" has functionality in decision making. Without such a node of negotiation the word "reality" is never used in normal life (excluding philosophy).
Now either you understand this point about
usage or you do not. It may be counter-intuitive to
you yet an examination of your own discourse will substantiate it.