@chai2,
Speaking of wasted or wasting time.
It wasn't until very recently I came to terms with this, in what I felt for me was a beautiful calming way.
Looking back on all the time I would tell myself I was wasting time? In almost every instance, it was because I wasn't doing something that someone else would want me to do.
This includes all those motivational people, those who want you chasing the material life, and some god as well.
If I decide to completely "waste" a day playing a video game inside and zoning out, I realized it's because it was what was best for me at that moment. I appreciate and enjoy the hell out of it, and don't think of it as wasting a moment.
I never thought Jesus was that great. So I have no need to ask WWJD?
I don't care what he would do.
I don't even this he was a real person probably. Just an amalgamation of some mostly common sense ideas.