There are nasty gays and there are nice gays.
A bunch of nasties surrounded Lots house in Sodom and hammered on the door yelling "Bring out those two men who are visiting you, we want to have them!" (Genesis 19:4)
It was a bad call by the nasties because the visitors were angels in human form and they called in an "airstrike" against Sodom/Gomorrah..
The moral? - most decent people couldn't care less if nasty loud militant homosexuals are slung into hell like human trash.
But most people like nice quiet friendly gays and have no beef with them.
Whether their niceness will get them through the pearlies only God knows.
Incidentally ex-gays were welcomed into the early Christian churches-
Paul said- "heathens, adulterers, gays, thieves, the greedy, drunkards, slanderers, swindlers ...that is what some of you were" (1 Cor 6:9-11)