@fresco,
Well, here's the Merriam-Webster definition of 'reality'.
Quote:: the true situation that exists : the real situation
: something that actually exists or happens : a real event, occurrence, situation, etc.
I pointed to the consideration that 'reality' is the immediate experience we have of 'world'
and the act of perceiving it. We have no factual basis to conclude that 'world' and 'the act of perceiving it' are different things. They might be one and the same. Or we might ask what precisely the term refers to. Is it perception input, or perception output?
One comparison I like to use is that of quantum superposition versus eigenstate. In this comparison, 'human-reality' is an eigenstate. 'Non-perceived reality' would be the superposition. A state to which 'reality' only has a tenuous connection.
I've become aware of your verb 'to thing', and the 'thinger' over the years. To me they are meaningful, but it seems to me they are so only because of the current "lay of the land". Were it commonly accepted among us, to the degree that it was intuitive understanding, that perception is an active process in which we construct our reality, it seems to me that 'to thing' would have more or less the same meaning as 'to perceive'.