@hawkeye10,
Paula Deen is nowhere in Martha Stewart's league, nor can their "empires" even be compared--Deen's "empire" is loose change for Martha.
Stewart is a business magnate, Deen is nothing more than a Southern cook whose media celebrity allowed her to enter into lucrative promotion and endorsement deals. You are doing your usual comparison of apples and oranges, but, in this case, it's more like comparing oranges to radicchio.
Deen's undoing was her own mouth, and her tolerance of her brother's abominable behavior in conducting her business operations. Her monetary success was founded on the insubstantial whims of media celebrity, and it crumbled as quickly as it had come to her.
Stewart, like many business moguls, is a workaholic who needs to dominate and control the mega-empire she has worked to create. Even if this is eventually detrimental to her corporation's bottom line, Martha will still be laughing all the way to the bank long after people are saying, "Paula who?" She's more than satisfied her need to success in business, and she's enjoying the wealth that comes along with that, just as successful men do. More power to her
As Malcolm Forbes said, "He who dies with the most toys wins." Martha will have more toys than Paula Deen ever dreamed of....or than most people, including you, can ever hope to acquire. Her ambition and drive and success are formidable and enviable. She really has nothing left to prove to anyone, let alone to someone like you.