@firefly,
firefly wrote:You also have the right not to answer such questions. Personally, I prefer that to lying, or encouraging children to lie.
That's a nice move if you can make it work. But when, for example, a prospective employer asks you if you're pregnant and you say "no comment", that won't work: The interviewer will simply infer the correct answer from your choice to withhold it, and hire somebody else.
Likewise, when every student but you fills out a survey about psychological problems and drug use, this may well draw the school's attention onto you. Likewise if you answer every survey question
except the one that says "have you smoked pot at any time in the past semester?" It's your right to do it, but even if the school doesn't
intend to proceed this way when it designs the survey, it can still interpret your silence as evidence of a risk, later. That's how honesty on the student's part can have pernicious unintended consequences, and that's why it's important that students learn when to lie.
Knowing when to lie is an important aspect of growing up. I personally prefer it that grown-ups be realistic about lying, rather than wax moralistically about staying honest at all times.
PS: Having thought about the issue some more, I changed my mind and am now siding, on balance, with Mr. Dryden and against the school board.