Man sues for state to fund his brothel bills.

Adultery is never justifiable. If you aren't happy in the relationship, you owe it to your spouse to try to solve that WITH him/her. Aren't the vows "for better or for worse"?



You make it sound as though a guy is justified in getting his sexual needs met no matter how he does it. That just isn't right. Marriage is supposed to be a commitment, which, I would think, would include seeking out the reason why your spouse isn't "putting out" as you so delicately phrased it. *ahem*

As for the courts taking it into consideration, I think that pertains to the reasons why a spouse would say he/she isn't compatible with his/her mate. I can't imagine it being the sole reason a court would grant a divorce. There would likely have to be other circumstances figuring into it as well.

*sigh*

If there's no excuse for adultery than there's no excuse in cutting sex out of the marriage. It takes two to be a couple. Women use sex as a leverage tool and they just get pissed off when men figure out how to get around it.

It all comes down to marriage being a major waste of commitment. People should just live together. That way they don't have to worry about the inevitable legal mess that follows. And if your partner doesn't hold up their end of the bargain, including having sex then you can just dump them and move on to the next relationship.

Rover, sex is not guarenteed in a marriage. Nothing comes with a guarentee. That was my point. If the guy was expecting one, he's an idiot. Mind you his case pretty much proves that already.

You're right, sex is not a 100% guarantee in marriage. But it's a very important part of it. Without it, it's not a healthy and equal mariage and it should end. But what man in their right mind would stick around with a wife that isn't giving him sex. Only the whipped ones, but like I said, if it's not preformed than the partner needs to seek it else where. And the one that's not living up to their part of the bargain should not be surprised when the divorce comes.

Hmmm...you're single aren't ya roverroad.

There should be love in the equation too. I know I'd never get married unless I had that with the guy I was involved with. And if a woman is denying her husband sex as a tool of leverage, then there are more problems in that relationship than lack of sex.

Like I said I think marriage is a waste of time.

Love is important in a marriage too. So is sex! If you think they don't go hand in hand, you're living in a fantasy world. I defy you to name one marriage that could last without a healthy sexual relationship. One person will be unhappy and I guarantee you it usually won't be the woman.

When both people are healthy and in love, sex is there. Why wouldn't it be, unless there are other issues going on?

As for the guy in the story that initiated this thread, he's got no excuse. If he loved his wife, then he'd just have to play solitaire until he could be with her again. What do you single guys do? When you don't have a significant other in your life?

Rover, my statement was meant in jest, I never said a woman should withhold sex, I think, rather realistically, when your married - its not about sex 24/7. The guy above seems to think it is, I'd say he was wrong.

As for sex being a big part of a relationship, yup - you'll get no argument from me, but a sexual guarantee is ridiculous in any relationship, unless of course, you're paying for it.

Hope that dispels the myth that I would ever contemplate holding out............

Well, agreed, 24/7 would be pretty ridiculous. I know I got off subject here and I do think the guy is an idiot for taking this through the german court system. He should be suing immigration.

This man, is he an example of the famous German humor? :wink: I mean, come on Germans, it is OUR job to do crazy things concerning sex, drugs and rock & roll! (ok, not the last thing)

Oh yes, definitely the last thing. Ever been to a "Das Ich" konzert?

No, never been to a "Das Ich" concert... but I bet it has something to do with folklore....or Carnaval....zose krazy Zjermans :wink:

Not at all, you vliegerende Hollander!

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Just teasing, my sincere apologies :wink: , I'm just a stupid Käsekopf