A pet of any type would be impractical right now. And after Leroy was gone I told myself I'd never get another pet because it was just too hard to have to deal with his going, even though I had plenty of time to prepare because of his health problems. I haven't gotten another pet so far. Maybe one day, when it isn't impractical. Right now I enjoy everyone else's pets. My parents' dog, my friend's cats, the neighbour's cats (one who is a bit psycho, but I'm used to the variation in cat personalities) and anyone else I encounter who has a beast.
Most of the time I tend to think of the good memories and not the bad stuff. It's too sad to think of the end of a pet's life.
quinn1, in answer to your original question, I don't have the type of answer you're looking for. Cats can be such picky eaters and not the easiest beasties to get to do things your way. (Self-centered little critters aren't they?
) I know it isn't the healthiest, but I think just making your cats happy while they are here is the way to go. I wouldn't overindulge in giving them food, but it sounds like you are already restricting them. I guess the only other thing to do is to try and get their lazy kitty butts moving more, but that's difficult to do, I know! Try to engage their curiosity so they will move!
Other than that, I haven't really got any advice that's worked. I can only tell you from looking back that I'm glad the decision was made to give Leroy what he wanted to eat near the end of his life. He had been put on diet food, which he wouldn't eat, and I think I would have felt even more guilty if he had been kept on that diet until his last day.
It ain't easy. I hope someone has a solution for you!
(Edited for grammatical correction.)