First of all, stop thinking that what guys look for in a partner is the same as what women look for. Women are not lured in by looks the way men are, we appreciate a handsome guy, but women really want a guy who likes her
looks. Women want to feel both desired and respected. Women need to trust a man will not hurt them before they commit. Relationships make women vulnerable and a smart woman looks for a man who she feels safe with and who can offer her some stability. It's why women will often trade good looks for material success and/or intelligence. So skip a few sessions at the gym and read a few good books, take a few classes in things you are interested in, work to be successful in whatever your chosen profession is and don't send any woman these 1/2 naked pictures, unless asked to.