fishin' wrote:Bull. It's 100% your decision. Your employer doesn't hold a gun to your head and force you to move.
I've already said that.
Quote: Nonsense. Thousands of people get stuck paying their way out of contracts daily.
I never said everyone gets away with it. I said that in most states, there are protections. I've lived in a number of states (NY, NJ, CT, MD, VA, CA, TX, KS, FL, GA, IL, WA) and worked at a job where moving frequently was a requirement (thus moving into and out of each of those states). That being the case, I've had experience in moving and breaking leases on short notice due to job relocation. I've never been required to pay penalties or satisfy my lease obligation when I've been able to supply evidence of my job-related relocation. Perhaps this is peculiar to my situation. Don't honestly know, but I find it difficult to believe that in 12 states, I've merely gotten lucky.
Quote: Yes, it's a non-profit advocacy organisation that works to assist low-income renters in protecting their legal rights. Where as you have....???? What grants you your ability to speak clearly in legal matters? I'll take their word for it.
I've already stated quite clearly that:
1 - I'm not a lawyer
2 - I've consulted my attorney in a similar matter, and his advice and counsel is what I was basing my information on, and
3 - I could well be wrong. That should be enough, but feel free to continue badgering me. I don't mind.
Also, I'll clarify one thing I said earlier. The organization cited above is indeed a good organization, and I would likewise take their advice over that of a lay-person. Didn't mean to imply otherwise in the heat of my reply.
Quote: If most states provide these protections for someone that relocates you should have no problem finding references to them. I'll wager that you'll find very few - because they don't exist.
I did. I went to my attorney. Surely, you could agree that an attorney is an authority in legal matters?
Quote:No, there's nothing wrong with that advice. The problem is with misleading comments like "Most states also recognize moving at the behest of one's employer as an uncontrollable circumstance." when most states very clearly don't.
Again, this is not the debate - SBC in California, and the troubles there are, so I really don't know why you are beating the topic into the ground.
Oh ... wait ... you're waiting for me to grovel in a corner and apologize extensively for my misstep. Well, never mind. I've already quite clearly stated that I may be wrong on the specifics, and related that my experiences are the example cited. Perhaps I was overzealous in my assertions, but I've already clarified as much as I care to. If I am wrong, so be it, but do not go around brow-beating me and claiming I'm trying to mislead people with bogus legal advice - it's simply not true.
One more time: Seek the advice of your local legal aid society, research the pertinent law, and negotiate with SBC. That is the extent of my legal advice, and it is grounded on solid common sense. Do not go around painting me as some sort of armchair lawyer, because in fact, if you stop, you'll find that we agree on that topic, and that is - in fact - the topic at hand.
I get the impression that you are either looking for an argument, or hoping I'm going to beg your forgiveness. Forget it. I've stated myself clearly, clarified, and admitted that yes indeed - I could well be wrong in some specifics. However, I still maintain that the best thing for "8-Car Fan" to do is to seek the advice of his/her local legal aid society, research the pertinent law, and negotiate with SBC. All else is fluff. My attorney says that my landlord can not enforce a lease on me if my company relocates me, and that is good enough for me. I am not a lawyer, and so take his advice as valid. Unless you are a judge, I will take his advice over yours.
Also, I never
never
advocated people breaking their leases willy-nilly, so don't go jumping up my ass as if I was telling people to shoot their cats. "Misleading comments"? Misleading implies that I intentionally desire a particular course of action. If I am wrong, so be it, but do not insinuate that there was some intentional wrong doing in that.
I am not going to engage in a state-by-state debate on this subject, despite the fact that I am very sure you would love the argument. I was merely offering advice, to whit: Seek the advice of your local legal aid society, research the pertinent law, and negotiate with SBC. That being the case, let all else drop already.
Your venomous and scathing attacks show just the level of resistance to advice as well as your severe dislike of conversation in favor of heated argument. That's not why I came here, and it is not why I offered the advice I did
Seek the advice of your local legal aid society, research the pertinent law, and negotiate with SBC.
If you can not get it through your head that that is the sole piece of advice offered, and that I've already clarified my position (that, yes, I may be wrong, but that my information is grounded on personal, recent events, as opposed to simply pulling them out of my ass) then you seriously have a reading comprehension problem.
In conclusion, my sole advice - as I've stated over and over again - is to seek the advice of your local legal aid society, research the pertinent law, and negotiate with the pertinent contractor. If I am wrong in something, then so be it. I don't mind being corrected or educated, but you certainly do not have to be a scathing asshole in the process.