@Thomas,
I'm inclined to say yes to that, but I think it is more complicated than hypocrisy.
Not that I know, I haven't been catholic since the early sixties when I went from fervent to what is this nonsense.
What if I stayed? There was a group of nuns in my city who put up a fight, see Immaculate Heart Nuns, or some link like that.
I left the church when I worked my way out of believing, which turned out not to be a matter of argument but a kind of popped balloon. But many others in the u.s. stayed, still believing and, I take, trying to represent themselves in conversation with or antagonism to the vatican.
I take it, but don't know personally, that there are many catholics with basic belief who aren't engaged with the vatican. And that women who use contraceptive pills and so on, are part of that.
I think there is a wacko disjuncture with bishops and the congregation.