@engineer,
Personal I would place not being a resource hog near the top or at the very top of the list.
I used the free version of avg that seems to work fine and is not a resource hog and also every fews weeks I run a complete scan of my drive using Microsoft free defender program as a secondary check.
Oh the real time protection is provide by avg not defender as I had set defender real time protection feature to off and is using it as an on demand scanner only.
To me I am uncomforted with depending on any one vendor for total protection.