@bigstew,
If Ethics have an objective being, and meaning, it is because they exist after we die, and will exist after we all die... In fact they will not... Ethics exist as moral forms having no being at all, and having only the meaning we give to them out of the storehouse of meaning that is our lives which is all meaning to us, and all being -for that matter...
The important thing to remember about moral forms is that all of them were brought out of the past, and the past was a place both low technology and labor intensive... And yet, having nothing, those people made an issue of Ethics, and honor, and love, and justice, and on and on... And this may seem strange that people having nothing, and dieing young from war or hard work or starvation should universally care about these moral forms and make of them the subjects of their disputes and conversations... The reality is that these moral forms which as all forms are forms of relationship are essential to the success and well being of society... It is that wellness and life of society that made ethical considerations formost, and at times made the life of the individual seem as nothing, a mere sacrifice... What then is pleasure to sacrifice compared with life... What if one must give up life for his commuity and another will not give up pleasure... You see, there are considerations that make ethic seem as if objective, but the true object, the true objective meaning if there can be said to be one is life, the life of the community... Morals are community... Without morals, and without ethicss what ever the difference is thought to be, there is no community... And we can see this etemologically in the word ethic which is so close to Ethnic... It comes from custom, or character, what we get from our communities...