What is this considered?

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Some might say it was consensual sex that got rough. You were no longer enjoying it.

If you are still seeing him and/or having sex with him, then don't call it rape.

Legally, it's rape.

However, rape from a moral/ethical/personal perspective is about more than just the law.

I'm rather of the opinion that if you must ask if you have been raped, that you haven't been raped. There would be ways of describing the incident more accurately.

It seems that it made you feel badly about yourself, and I would encourage you to understand your feelings on the matter, and then sit him down and talk the matter through with your boyfriend. Have you told him how it made you feel?

In everything, you need to make sure that you respect your yourself and your feelings - express them respectfully but firmly, listen respectfully , maintain respecting your feelings (which may or may not involve disagreeing with him), and if necessary, never stay in a relationship where you will not be respected...doing so says that you deserve disrespect, and repeatedly putting yourself in such a position will mean that you will eventually come to believe that you are worth the lower level of respect you settled for.

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This link may be helpful

http://www.criminal-law-lawyer-source.com/terms/date-rape.html

I would be very cautious from now on, but if he feels terrible then I wouldn't necessarily bring it to the law. It is a very difficult situation but do you love him still?

If the guy is alcoholic he needs to get help..

I don't find it a rape as both of you got into it with your own will. Yes! That's true that he did few things against your will, but that doesn't mean he wanted to hurt you. It was only due to the intake of alcohol that made him act weird. So stop thinking bad about that and forgive him with a note that you won't handle this anymore in future.

Why are people defending the guy because he felt bad about it? The moment the girl told him to stop, and he refused, he was forcing her against her will. It was unconsentual sex, i.e. rape. You don't know what this guy is capable of now. If it happened once, who's to say the next time he gets that drunk it won't happen again?

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