@Linkat,
May I put in my
worth? I believe parents put too much emphasis on grades. Grades do not result in a successful life - economically or life-wise.
I believe in motivating children to go into a field that will make them happy and content in life. Unlike many parents, I told my two sons I expected them to go to college, but to choose a career field that they would be happy in working for most of their life.
I was not a high achiever in grade school, and almost flunked out of high school. Like many on a2k, I was a "late bloomer" who achieved much more than I could have ever dreamed as a child, and I have been happy for most of my adult life. My wife was a high achiever in high school, nursing school, and college. She graduated all with honors as did our two sons; summa cum laude and cum laude. Yes, I'm proud of both our sons, as well as all my siblings and their children.
I also believe our schools are failing our children by trying to teach them to pass standardized tests, and forgetting that not all children learn at the same rate based on age and interests.