The conflicting accounts are indeed confusing. But I think the media did well. For example, the media explored the 9/11 - Saddam issue in depth and many media outlets bemoaned that the public continued to believe it despite there not being any evidence.
I remember both CNN and other news outlets taking the polls, finding out that the majority of Americans believe the connection and then scratching their heads as to the why.
Here's the first Google result I found when looking for it, it simply talks about the poll numbers:
http://www.gopusa.com/news/2003/september/0908_hussein_911.shtml
Bush himself never went to far as to claim the connection you believed.
From Reuters: "We've had no evidence that Saddam Hussein was involved in Sept. 11," Bush told reporters as he met members of Congress on energy legislation.
The media reported all of this. This is why it's frustrating for people to hold out for evidence to those positions. In my opinion these are the types of claims that should require at least a shred of evidence befor the positions are taken.
The Saddam - 9/11 connection was never openly made. It was only implied through wordplay and through a debunked claim (Prague).
The people who believe this do so only on the very subtle implication and disregard direct statements such as that I quoted from Bush.