@Ionus,
Greetings and cheers. We meet for the first time. I like your avatar. That verbal slugfest between you and kuvasz months ago was fascinating. Sometimes it’s best to let sleeping dogs lie. Believe it or not, I’m not one of your opponents. I think I agree with you on some issues. Now I shall attempt to submit a reply that will satisfy you, but will probably fail …
I don’t hate arrogant people; I’m merely irritated by them. As the dictionary definition indicates, arrogant people are full of
unwarranted pride. As a preacher once told me, “We’re all ignorant. Just in different areas.” For that very reason, I don’t believe that there is anyone who is always right. As far as “not kiss-arse enough for [my] ego” is concerned, I don’t want anyone to fawn on me. I hope I’m being honest about this: I’m not interested in ego battles with people, which doesn't mean that I'm not capable of losing my temper (as I've done in this website's forum
three times
). In a verbal exchange with someone, I may take a particular stand on an issue as a matter of principle; but ego is not involved. What has bothered me about a lot of arrogant people is that they often don’t respect others. Pardon me if I brag about my late father; but he was extremely successful in his chosen profession, despite considerable difficulties he faced as a teenager. But he showed by his actions and his example that he was a humble man who respected the dignity of those whose vocations were not high-paying like his. Anyway, like it or not, that’s my reply.