@JPB,
JPB wrote:
I think it's a generational thing. I've stopped leaving voice messages on my kids phones because they don't pick them up. They'll see a missed call and either call me or text me "wassup?" I'll say I left you a voice message, they'll say "Yeah, I know. What did you say?"
Oh MAN! That would drive me crazy!!
I think of it this way. You did the work of leaving a messsage. They are (don't take this personal) "too lazy" to listen (which involves no effort). Instead they want YOU to do MORE work, to suit their laziness.
I would respond, "listen to the message and you'll know."
Then I would add "If I leave you a voice message, that means listen to it"
That's part of what I mean by "fad" Instead of being courteous and taking the message in the form it was presented, it's only a valid message nowadays if it's texted.
This reminds me of something I wrote in a job tips thread. I'll be calling an applicant, leaving a message, and my other line is ringing. It's the applicant calling back WHILE I'm still leaving a message. Grrrrr.....
This making more work for the wrong person reminds me of something else, which I'm sick of...
Actually, this has only happened to me 2 times, and I wouldn't let it ever happen again, but here goes.
Someone asks me to loan them a small amount, like $5, because they don't have their wallet with them.
Sure, no problem, I know I'll get it back the next day.
The next day the person comes to you, wanting to write a freaking CHECK to pay you back.
The first time this happened, I'll be honest, I really didn't get what they were doing. I remember saying "why are you giving me this check, what's this for?"
She said "this is to pay you back that $3 you loaned me last time I saw you (like 2 weeks before)"
I remember standing there, still not getting it, saying "um....oh....uh, ok"
I carried that check around with me for weeks, either forgetting about it when I was near or in my bank, not wanting to stop, make a special trip, etc.
Not that long ago, same thing. The next day this woman tried to give me a check for like 5 stinkin' bucks. I said "I don't want to have to go out of my way to go to the bank, wait in line, when I already did you the favor of loaning you money."
".....but....I don't have any cash"
"well, when you do, I'll be right here."